Womb to Tomb
Days in the Womb
The moment a new soul is instilled into an embryo during fertilization, the personality traits of this single-celled human being are 100% pure and perfect in the image and likeness of its Creator. Right from the very next moment, as the nourishment of the preborn’s body continues from its mother’s body, the personality framework and its constitution get rewritten to synchronize it with that of the mother directly and the father indirectly. You guessed it right, this is exactly when and how the originally gifted 100% perfect personality of the preborn gets systematically degraded to the level of its parents’. By the time the preborn’s brain, sense organs, neural networking, internal organs, and circulatory systems are developed enough to seat its personality traits, a big chunk of its purity would have been subdued, if not polluted by its own parents’ personality traits. We know that the undeniable rule is that the dominant personality trait wins the struggle in any interaction and the same is the automatic result of the pregnancy period too. The interactions between the mother and the preborn are very strong and thereby the impact is unimaginably high on the vulnerable child. The interactions with the father are live too though indirectly through its mother. ‘Take good care of your wife during pregnancy’ isn’t just a catchy statement, but every single thought and action of the mother is precisely absorbed by the preborn. Beware fathers who are entrusted to protect your wives from the very moment of your marriage through thick and thin.
At the moment of Birth
60% of the child’s personality is already formed as a cumulative equivalent of the dominant personality strengths of each of its parents repeatedly rewritten at every moment of its growth phase till its birth. This overwriting starts from the very next moment of the conception of the body and soul of the child in the womb.
Below 3 years of age
The newborn’s soul is not accountable for any impurity, if any, that has crept into its personality and thus it cannot sin, in its literal sense. The above statement is valid even though this child errs (imperfections/disorders) at times. These errors in its personality construct have been passed onto the child from its parents directly or indirectly. The personality framework of the child gets cemented more firmly during these 3 years predominantly influenced by its parents’ personality. The child’s imagination and intellect aren’t mature enough to understand and process the inputs collected through its 5 senses though it is pleasantly excited to absorb everything it comes in contact with in this new world. 70% of the personality has already taken shape by this age. This is purely based on the integration of the personalities of its parents during these years since the child is very much dependent on its parents even though it is outside the womb. All tweaks, revisions, and overwriting will however be on the core personality position of the child at that very moment. These overwritten resultant personality traits will be recognized as the dominant personality position of the child.
Between 4-7 years of age
During the next step in the development process, the kid is first introduced to the concept of reasoning. The linkages of imagination and intellect get routed in the brain to a great extent at this phase. Interactions with society, outside the world of its parents, become more purposeful and oriented at this stage. This exposure is a critical step as if it’s an entry into a new world. This is by all means a big leap, as dramatic as the change of scenarios when inside and outside the womb. The age of reason is the age by which personal accountability starts being assigned for sin. The gravity of the accountability of a sin committed would certainly be based on various specific factors though. 80% of the personality will form by this age and this is very much influenced by the hurt and scars formed in the personality construct of the child during any of its interactions during this period.
Around 8-13 years of age
Sexual energies start getting introduced into the kid’s biochemical dynamics. Gradually this newcomer takes over the control and becomes the dominant player. All the 7 faculties, biology, biochemistry, body mechanics, and interactions get tuned as per the inclinations and instructions of this rhythm. A deep-rooted urge to get independent and the temptation to explore new relationships, things, and places make this period very controversial, more so in today’s society and culture. 90% of the personality will get formed by this age and this is strongly guided by the personality position in the previous stage.
Between 14-18 years of age
Adolescence as we call it is a more complicated phase than adulthood if handled without care. The personality collective formed till this stage tends to stabilize and settle down during this critical stage before it starts demanding the freedom to display its name board and showcase its identity. The unsaid but default expectation of this individual is to be treated as an equal by everybody around, be it the Prime Minister of the country or the Pope. 95% of the personality will get carved by this age and this is strongly influenced by the dominant personality position of early teenage.
After 18 years
As the man takes his early few steps into his adulthood, he is often overwhelmed by a sense of freedom and independence from the reins of parents, society, rules, limitations of age, and other perceived inabilities such as lack of physical strength, immature intellect, and inexperience. Even though he ends up struggling under a load of responsibilities and accountabilities which comes along as a companion of adulthood, this sense of excitement triggered by the long-yearned freedom often makes him forget the heaviness of the burden. However, man tends to comfortably sideline the hard truth that any attempt to rewrite his current personality construct without any traces of the past is the most difficult exercise he can ever imagine after his initial blueprint is already drawn during his childhood and thereafter till the very moment. Instead during his early adulthood, man makes elaborate plans to camouflage his true personality by adorning specialized presentation skills, practising tone and voice modulations, rigorously training to showcase accepted mannerisms, showcasing dramatized spiritual practices, stuffing himself with material knowledge, superficial interpersonal skills, material wealth, positional influence, power, etc. Regaining one’s true inner personality of the soul which was originally gifted to that person as a child at the very moment of conception is the ultimate purpose of man’s existence in this world. The time available for man to make the best use of is very limited and finite, and this brief regaining stint has to be squared off before the game on this earth is called off. A human being is the best example of a Live-Infinite-Series if we were to precisely define a human being mathematically. In other words, if a man is determined to use his WILL appropriately in the remaining TIME available to him at his disposal, INFINITE is his scope to regain his original untainted personality.
Approach Lane to the Tomb
Old age is not necessarily the period allocated for calling off the game for all human beings by default. The mystery of the exact time of the final whistle will remain forever in the custody of the Creator of this universe unless He chooses to reveal it to a few about their last moments as a special gift or to a few others to make a few quick amends. Even though man’s physical and mental strength deteriorates to a great extent in his old age as he is closer to his tomb, every moment still counts and so let the repair work not stop. The strength of mind and body will not be sufficient during these last days of life, to live up to the humongous task at hand of clearing off the dirt picked up carelessly since the childhood days. The earlier I rise to it, the better my chances of a complete transformation.